SOLVED:Flash jQuery Question
Not the best solution, but I just moved the AC_FL_RunContent scripts with the dialog code to the bottom right before the </body> tag. Now there's just blank space at the bottom, which doesn't matter.

Hi, everyone. I just implemented a working Flash/PHP email form that is hidden contained in a dialog box. I'm totally psyched! Now to my problem. I love the functionality, but when I inserted the swf code into the dialog box code, a blank flash player the size of my swf pushed the rest of my website down. You can take a look at it
here.