How to always reload remote tab content

How to always reload remote tab content


I'm trying to get a tab to load remote content each time it is
selected. This is what I am currently using, which doesn't work.
jQuery(document).ready(function($){
$("#mytabs> ul").tabs({
fxFade: true,
fxSpeed: 'fast',
ajaxOptions: {cache: false}
});
$("#mytabs> ul").tabsLoad(5,'stats_main.php');});
The tab's content is loaded, but unless I refresh browser, the newly
revised content is not.
Can someone provide more clues?
TIA