thanks to  popnoodles i could finaly achieve what i wanted but now i am in front of an other problem xD 

maybe anyone could help me there 

http://jsfiddle.net/yCY9y/175/

here are some boxes which are getting bigger by mouse over but now i want to implement 2 static boxes ( in each column one ) 

by static i mean boxes which dont change their size by mouse over but they are moved when an other box cahnges the size so that is is seen all the time 

greetings fönig