jQuery Media and UI dialog issues

jQuery Media and UI dialog issues

I have a video on my page that is being renedered using the jQuery media plug-in.  This works great until I open a dialog box on the same page.  When I do this the video is playing above the dialog box.  I have spent several hours searching for a way around this and have found several post saying to use either wmode transpartent or opaque.  I have tried both and nothing is working. 
 
I don't know if this makes a differance but the player and its controlls are under the dialog, it is the actaul video that above the dialog.
 
Thanks for your help,
Milliisa