jQuery tabs mouseover menu; after mouseoff back to selected

jQuery tabs mouseover menu; after mouseoff back to selected

Hello,

I'm having troubles making a tabbed menu work.
I want tabs which are triggered on mouseover, with one tab being selected from the start; I got this so far. But now I want the tab-menu to go back to the first, selected tab after mouseoff, preferably with a little delay + fade.
Any ideas on how to do this?

(using jQuery + UI + UI tabs)

Got this so far:

            $(function() {
               
            $("#tabmenu").tabs({
               selected: 0,
               event: 'mouseover',
                    fx: { opacity: 'toggle', duration: 'fast' } });
         });


<div id="tabmenu">
   <div id="tabs-1">
      <p>Content of tab 1.</p>
   </div>
   <div id="tabs-2">
      <p>Content of tab 2.</p>
   </div>
   <div id="tabs-3">
      <p>Content of tab 3.</p>
   </div>
   <ul>
      <li><a href="#tabs-1">Tab one</a></li>
      <li><a href="#tabs-2">Tab two</a></li>
      <li><a href="#tabs-3">Tab three</a></li>
   </ul>   
</div>