jQuery Validate: Highlight on submit, unhighlight on the fly

jQuery Validate: Highlight on submit, unhighlight on the fly

Hi!

I wonder if you could help me sort this out. My goal is the following:

1. Errors should only be highglighted on form submit. A container saying "You missed two fields, they are highlighted below" shows up above the form.
2. When the user corrects a highglighted (erroneous) field, the error should be unhighlighted (disappear).

Is this possible, I can't seem to find a working example of this and can't figure out how to go about on my own.