Multiple Submit Buttons vs Enter to submit form

Multiple Submit Buttons vs Enter to submit form

I'm having trouble setting the default submit button AND complying with jquery-mobile styling/markup best practices.

a simple login form, and i want to have the layout:
email: ___
pass: ___
[forgot pass] [login]

so to get that on the buttons and jquery-mobile i must use:
  1. <fieldset class="ui-grid-a">
  2. <div class="ui-block-a"><button name="action" value="forgot" type="submit" data-theme="c">I forgot</button></div>
  3. <div class="ui-block-b"><button name="action" value="login" type="submit" data-theme="b">Log me in</button></div>
  4. </fieldset>

that makes the [i forgot] button before the [login]... so when the user press ENTER it will send the password reset email... at least on some browsers. on IE i get an empty value.

my initial solution to solve both problems was to add a default value just at the beginning of the form code:
  1. <!-- handles enter key-press -->
  2. <input type="hidden" name="action" value="login" /> <!-- handles no JS-->

i even tried adding a new invisible button there to please some internal jquery 'fixing' of the enter keypress to submit forms...

the end result is:
chrome: action=forgot
firefox: action=forgot
android: action=login

what am i doing wrong?