onfocusout disable onsubmit?

onfocusout disable onsubmit?

'll describe and post the code. Like you can see in the post above, I have three textbox, but only one can be functional at the time. And I need that the validation occurs only on submit and only with one button. I added everything they say we need, like Class cancel to the buttons I don't want to do validation. And I added onfocusout:false, and onkeyup:false to make only the onsubmit validating.
If I put onfocus: false, don't do any validation at all. And the class don't cancel the validation. Don't know what to do.
 
 
<%@ Page Title="" Language="C#" MasterPageFile="~/Site.Master" AutoEventWireup="true"
    CodeBehind="Consulta.aspx.cs" Inherits="SubstituindoAjaxToolkitPorJQuery.Page.Consulta"
    ClientIDMode="Inherit" %>
 
<asp:Content ID="Content1" ContentPlaceHolderID="HeadContent" runat="server">
</asp:Content>
<asp:Content ID="Content2" ContentPlaceHolderID="MainContent" runat="server">
    <script src="../Scripts/jquery-1.8.3.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
    <script src="../Scripts/jquery-ui-1.9.2.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
    <script src="../Scripts/jquery.maskedinput-1.3.min.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
    <script src="../Scripts/jquery.validate.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
    <script type="text/javascript">
            $.validator.setDefaults({
                ignore: ':hidden, [readonly=readonly]'
            });
        $(document).ready(function () {
        $.validator.addMethod('exactLength', function (field, element, param) {
                //remove qualquer elemento além de texto
                var texto = field;
                $.each(texto, function (index, value) {
                   texto = texto.replace(/[_\/\.-]/g,"");
                });
                return this.optional(element) || texto.length == param;
            }, "Please enter exactly characterers.");
            $('div#messageBox1').hide();
            var validator = $('#form1').validate({
                debug: true,
                onkeyup: false,
                onfocusout: false,
                rules: {
                    <%=txtA.UniqueID%>:{
                        exactLength: 7,
                        required: true
                    },
                    <%=txtB.UniqueID%>: {
                        exactLength: 14,
                        required: true
                    },
                    <%=txtC.UniqueID%>: {
                        exactLength: 8,
                        required: true
                    }
                },
                messages: {
                    <%=txtA.UniqueID%>: {
                        required: "Digite",
                        exactLength: "A deve conter 7 digits"
                    },
                    <%=txtB.UniqueID%>: {
                        required: "Digite",
                        exactLength: "B deve conter 14 digits"
                    },
                    <%=txtC.UniqueID%>: {
                        required: "Digite",
                        exactLength: "C deve conter 8 digits"
                    }
                },
                highlight: function(element, errorClass, validClass){
                    $(element).css({background: 'red', opacity: 0.3})
                },
                unhighlight: function(element, erroClass, validClass){
                    $(element).css({opacity: 1.0})
                },
                errorContainer: "#messageBox1",
                errorLabelContainer: "#messageBox1 ul",
                wrapper: "li", debug:true,
            });
            $('#btnGerar').click(function(){
                validator.resetForm();
            });
            $('#btnConsultar').attr('disabled', true);
            $('.pesquisa').live('focus', function () {
                $(this).prop('readonly', false);
                $(this).removeAttr('style');
                $('#btnConsultar').attr('disabled', false);
                campo = $('.pesquisa');
                indice = campo.index(this);
                $('.pesquisa').each(function () {
                    if (campo.index(this) != indice) {
                        $(this).css({
                            background: '#e8e8e8'
                        });
                        $(this).prop('readonly', true);
                        $(this).val("");
                    }
                });
            });
 
            $('.textbox').live('click', function () {
                $('.validator').css({ display: "none" });
            });
            $('.botao').live('click', function () {
                if ($('#form1').valid()) {
                    return true;
                }
                return false;
                $('.desabilitar').attr('disabled', true);
            });
        });
        jQuery(function ($) {
            $("#txtB").mask("99.999.99-9999/999");
            $('#txtA').mask("9999-99/9");
            $('#txtC').mask("99.99.99.99");
        });
    </script>
    <style>
        #messageBox1
        {
            color: Red;
        }
    </style>
    <table cellpadding="2" cellspacing="10" class="tabelaFormulario">
        <tbody>
            <tr>
                <th colspan="3">
                    <p>
                        Consulta</p>
                </th>
            </tr>
            <tr>
                <td>
                    <p>
                        A:
                    </p>
                    <asp:TextBox ID="txtA" CssClass="textbox campoPequeno pesquisa desabilitar" runat="server"
                        AutoPostBack="false" ClientIDMode="Static"></asp:TextBox>
                </td>
                <td>
                    <p>
                        B:
                    </p>
                    <asp:TextBox ID="txtB" CssClass="textbox campoPequeno pesquisa desabilitar" runat="server"
                        ClientIDMode="Static" AutoPostBack="false"></asp:TextBox>
                </td>
                <td>
                    <p>
                        C:
                    </p>
                    <asp:TextBox ID="txtC" CssClass="textbox campoPequeno pesquisa desabilitar"
                        runat="server" AutoPostBack="false" ClientIDMode="Static"></asp:TextBox>
                </td>
            </tr>
        </tbody>
    </table>
    <div class="barraBotoes" dir="rtl">
        <asp:Button ID="btnConsultar" runat="server" CssClass="btPadrao desabilitar botao"
            Text="Consultar" ClientIDMode="Static" OnClick="Button_Click" />
        <asp:Button ID="btnGerar" runat="server" CssClass="btPadrao desabilitar botao"
            Text="Gerar" />
        <asp:Button ID="btnLimpar" runat="server" CssClass="btPadrao desabilitar botao" Text="Limpar" />
    </div>
    <br />
    <asp:Label ID="lblTeste" runat="server" Text=""></asp:Label>
    <div id="messageBox1" class="msg_erro" dir="ltr" style="width: 20%">
        <ul>
        </ul>
    </div>
    <br />
    <br />
</asp:Content>






























































































































































 
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