Superfish - disable a menu and show the current menu

Superfish - disable a menu and show the current menu

Hello:

I am using Superfish 1.4.8, and need to be able to do two things:
  • Show a menu that will someday be a link to a page, but isn't yet implemented.  The menu text will be gray, which I've already done, and the <a> item does not nave an href.  What I need to do now is to keep this particular li element from highlighting on a hover.
  • Show the current active menu by changing the text color to green.  For example, if I click on an enabled li element (each li menu element represents a library of some type of document), I want that element's text to change to green and stay green until a user clicks on a different menu.  This is a client requirement so their users can quickly see what library they are in.
Any help would be most appreciated.

Thanks.