No problem, ask whatever questions you need to help you get done what you need - that's why we're here!

Which method you use will depend on what you want to accomplish.
disabling something will leave it there and visible but the user wont be able to interact with it. Usually you would do this if there is an action they can take that will enable it, it is a way of letting them know what the other possibilities are.
When you hide something, it is still there it just can't be seen. You could use this to hide something that might come back eventually.
remove takes it out of the dom completely, if you want to put it back you'll need to recreate the element and add it back into the dom.
Would the options the user sees be changing while they are on the page, if so then I'd recommend hiding or disabling them so it easier to put them back. If the options will change between visits then you can use remove, although hide would work equally well.
Dave