jQuery ScrollTo - form submit tab remember

jQuery ScrollTo - form submit tab remember

Hello,
I used ScrollTo plugin with 4 tabs and in each I got a form, each with it's own "submit" button. Now the problem is when I click submit on tab2 for example, the form resets itself to tab1 which has the class "selected". So it reset itself and instead of showing the wrong fields or the echo it goes to the first tab (or the first selected one! each tab is set as "selected" on a different page, so the same div/scrollto plugin is displayed on multiple pages)
Please help me with this stuff as I pulled half of my hair over it, I'm no hardcore coder, as you imagine, I figure out things but it takes me ages sometimes !

That's the plugin:
http://plugins.jquery.com/project/ScrollTo
Thanks !