nested, sortable, show

nested, sortable, show

I have a nested sortable list and I am using toggle to hide li
elements but when I want to add to the ul I want to show all the all
li's of the ul I'm adding to so I know where i want to put them so I
do that like this
    $('.toggle').live('click',function() {
     $(this).parent().next("ul").children().toggle('slow');
    });
so when I move an li over the ul i want to show('slow) the children
of that ul but i'm not show how to trigger that event
any help would be appreciated
Mean Mike
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